It's all about the Roman Numeral: L
Thanks: Molly McGinn
Why I love Kindermusik and why I love my job...What's the secret? What's happenin' and what's to do around town to jump into live music, find it here. Cool musical and imaginative moments from Kindermusik of Holland and beyond, log on! Witness the moment when we know we humans are born to sing, born to dance. Share the Joy! For Yvette's current Kindermusik Classes please go to www.ashevilleartscenter.com. Please call 828-253-4000 to visit a class in Asheville NC for free.
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"Television will never be a serious competition for the radio because people must sit and keep their eyes glued to the screen. The average American family doesn't have time for it."
New York Times at the 1939 World's Fair
Turn it off. Live it up!
TV-Turn off Celebration
Thursday April 26, 2007
5-8pm
Dow Center Hope College 13th and Columbia Ave. Holland
To register call the City of Holland 616-355-1130
The fun events include
Kindermusik of Holland
Indoor bowling
Birds of Prey
Children's arts and games
Story times
Yoga
activities for adults too!
Television cuts into family time, harms our children's ability to read and succeed in school, and contributes to unhealthy lifestyles and obesity. Here are just a few of the facts:
On average, children in the US will spend more time in front of the television (1,023 hours) than in school this year (900 hours).
Forty percent of Americans frequently or always watch television during dinner.
As US Surgeon General Dr. David Satcher said at the Kick Off of TV-Turnoff Week 2001, "We are raising the most overweight generation of youngsters in American history...This week is about saving lives."
1) Television Eats Your Time
The average U.S. adult watches more than 4 hours of television a day. That's 25 percent of waking time spent every day. Imagine if you suddenly had 25 percent more time (More time for Kindermusik).
2) Television Makes You Stressed (The blinking screen of the TV causes us to produce cortisol, the stress hormone.) (Try Kindermusik rocking songs instead!)
3) Television Makes You Overweight
People eat between 31 and 74 percent more calories while watching TV. (Time to dance High and Low to your KindermusiK CDs.)
4) Television Make You Uninteresting
Many people have whole conversations that are recaps of TV programs, sporting events and sitcoms. When asked about their real lives, there is little or nothing to report and no stories to tell (except the TV shows they have watched). (I love those real life stories of your children dancing the syncopated rhythms from their Kindermusik Village class.)
5)Television Ruins Your Relationships
A television is turned on an average of 7 hours and 40 minutes per day in many U.S. households. With the TV on that much, there is little time for you and your significant other or children to spend time together, share experiences, and develop deeper relationships.
Sitting together and watching TV does not grow a relationship. Turn that TV off and find something to do together. (Sign up for a Kindermusik Adventure Summer class: http://holland.kindermusik.net)
6)Television is Not Relaxation (Give your child a massage while you sing a lullaby, enjoy that eye to eye contact! Then do those fun Knee bounces like we do in Kindermusik. Remember if they get a good belly laugh their bodies will produce a day and a half of extra white blood cells. That's for boosting imunities....)
7) Television Loses Opportunities (You sit in front of the TV and before you know it your children will be walking out the door--grown up and gone. Quick, go in the kitchen and do "All ARound the Kitchen Cockadoodle Doo! with all the pots and pans...need more ideas? Look in your Kindermusik Family activity books.)
8) Television is Addictive. Do you schedule things around your favorite shows? (People first. Have a conversation instead. Ask your little one what they did in Kindermusik today.)
9) Television Makes You Buy Things
By age 65, the average American has seen 2 million commercials. (I can't advertise Kindermusik on TV anyway. Let's make live music instead. See you in class.)
10) Television Costs Money (Save that money and keep your kids in Kindermusik and music lessons. Kindermusik.....a good beginning that never ends.)
What about me? We got rid of our TV. Completely. When the AT&T telemarketer called to find out why we have phone service, internet service but no cable he was completely shocked when I told him it was because we don't own a TV. After a prolonged moment of silence he asked "Well, what do you DO?" My daughter was listening in and shouting "WE READ, WE READ!!!" Can you imagine that!
You can do it to. At least for one week.
Peace,
Yvette
Thanks to Mark Stibich, PhD and the website: longevity.about.com for 10 TV consequences and the quote from the top.
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For all you parents investing in Kindermusik here's some affirmation! More and more experts and research indicates that music experiences early in childhood has very positive effects on children's brains. Here's an article from Canada's media. The photos did not come through so you will surely enjoy photos of children from Kindermusik of Holland instead!
Music's Notable NurturingEarly exposure is linked to staggering brain development -- but for kids, it's just pure fun
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A child never gives the wrong answer. They simply are answering a different question. ~unknown
My personal quest as someone who is priveledged to be surrounded by children in my work is to try, every moment, to see from their perspective. To try to figure out the question! Only then can we build scaffolding to grow their understanding.
Peace,
Yvette
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Did you know that right before a baby figures out how to walk (at about 11 months old), her brain sprouts tons of new neural connections in her prefrontal lobes. Her brain is getting ready for all the exploring she will do on this new level! Shortly after there's a natural pruning that happens which clears away the excess connections that aren't being used. We seem to cringe when we hear that because I think we see potential that won't actualize. But the brain needs to streamline and get better at what we're good at rather than having too many irons in the fire....
But what I've read recently sheds new light on parenting and your baby's potential at this exciting stage of development. The prefrontal lobes is the part of the brain responsible for problem solving and creativity as opposed to the limbic system and the hind brain which take care of emotions and body functions (heart rate, breathing, digestion, aggression, etc). The limbic system is responsible for the decision to send an experience to the prefrontal lobes for thoughtful consideration OR back to the hind brain for fast action and survival. Consider this: How we discipline this toddler sets her up for how her brain will best handle situations that present themselves to her.
The average toddler hears NO!!! or receives a stern look or swat about every 9 minutes of their waking day. Those particular adult reactions to toddler behavior sends the toddler's hind brain into action. The prefrontal lobes do not get enough practice. Those new neural connections aren't being used much.
How can you say NO! without saying no? You know, when my babies were little I prayed everyday for creativity and patience. Some days I worried God left me all alone to deal with parenting! It's such hard work.
Here's some suggestions on saying NO without saying no.
Tell the child what TO do.
Get the child’s attention before communicating, touch them on the shoulder or hand...
Say the child’s name.
Use a gesture, move so you get into her visual field.
Show him an object or other visual cue to get him to look at you.
Help them know what TO do.
Using your singing voice calms you and the child.
Use a prompt, hand him a tissue instead of saying “Don’t wipe your nose on your sleeve.”
Use a gesture. Gestures can guide her to appropriate behavior. Point to the coat hookinstead of “Don’t drop your coat on the floor.”
Model what you want
Offer “Let’s do it together.” That can encourage children to do things with more enthusiasm.
Call attention to the “problem”.
Say “Oh, oh” “Oops!” “Look!” Then point to what needs to be done.
Look right at his face and clearly state what you want the student to do.
Take a deep breath..... and exhale.
Save NO! for emergencies! You'll need something strong then.
And parents, take care of yourself because it's a lot easier if you're not exhausted, hungry, stressed out....etc, etc! Your baby NEEDS a happy mom and a happy dad.
Love,
Yvette
Thanks Lori B. for your post on alternatives to saying NO.
The part about the brain I got from a great author Joseph Chilton Pearce who wrote The Magical Child and The Biology of Transcendence.
I know just enough about the brain to get me in trouble...some day.... I dream about being a neuroscientist! ...and a cellist....and.....
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